Who’s Winning? Is it the Negative Committee in your Head or the Whisper in your Heart?
Who’s winning in your life? We all have the ‘Negative Committee’ in our head and they’re always around to hold us back and remind you how impossible it is to live the life of your dreams … Are you listening to them? https://brilliancewithin.com/2016/06/08/the-negative-committee-in-your-head/
“You can’t do that – you tried before and failed” or “You’re not good enough – you don’t stand a chance of succeeding”
When we listen to the Negative Committee, we stay stuck in our rut. We become scared to try new things and to challenge ourselves and we worry that people will think we’re an ‘idiot’ if we try to break out of the prison we’ve locked ourselves in.
And yet somewhere whispering quietly within us, is that little voice… the one you may not hear unless you listen very closely. It’s the voice of our dreams. https://brilliancewithin.com/2018/07/22/5-top-tips-how-to-listen-to-your-heart-and-free-printable-quote/
Are you listening to your heart…
It whispers… so listen closely
Who’s winning in your life – is it your Negative Committee, shouting loud or is it your Whispering Heart?
No matter how loud your Negative Committee is shouting you have the capacity to shut it down. There are some great techniques to begin to quieten your mind. As a hypnotherapist, I’m a great advocate of self-hypnosis and meditation. Both of these techniques will enable you to begin controlling your mind, so that you can start to listen to your intuition and recognise what it is that is quietly waiting for you…
So often, we live our life habitually. We take time to design our homes or to choose all the ‘extras’ we want on our phone or our car and yet we spend NO TIME to design our life.
If you’re not experiencing the life you dream of or you’ve got stuck in a rut and you feel there’s no choice but stay there, then maybe it’s time to start listening more closely to your heart. It’s always possible to make a choice to do things differently. When we change our thoughts, we change our experience of life.
Maybe you’ve got some old beliefs that need challenging? https://brilliancewithin.com/2016/08/03/are-beliefs-holding-you-back/
There is a life of your dreams waiting for you – do you know what it is that you want? If not, taking some time to create a Vision Board is a great way to start consciously designing your life. You can read how to create your Vision Board here: https://brilliancewithin.com/2016/04/26/how-to-create-a-dream-vision-board/
In the last September of your life, will you look back with regret at the things you didn’t do, or will you remember the amazing opportunities that came your way and you took advantage of?
Who’s Winning in Your Life?
Which book cover reflects your life? If you’re living a life full of ‘crap’ then you’re definitely listening to your Negative Committee. If you want to start living a life full of ‘love, laughter and luxury’ then maybe it’s time to start listening to your heart. Luxury doesn’t necessarily mean ‘money’ – it’s whatever makes your hear sing!
What gives you a ‘tingling’ feeling when you think about it… that’s a clue about how you should be living your life and what would help you break free from the self-imposed shackles, imposed by ourselves when we listen to our negative committee.